Thursday, 6 November 2014

the value of friendship



I'm not a very good starter on blogging but today, I would like to talk about friendship. Something has happened to my friend and I and we made up today I think? Haha. I have known her for 4 years although we haven't seen each other once irl (in real life). She is an old friend of mine, someone whom I'd met on an online rpg game. Not on PC but iPhone/Andriod/whatever. We have fought several times. I know, we may not be able to get along sometimes. 

I sort of found a problem with her and didn't speak to her for days. I knew she would find it weird but knowing her, she'd definitely figure it out either way or another. After some time away from here, I had been reflecting and thinking about what I should do. Should I just leave it as it is? An abrupt end to our four years of friendship? I must admit, I felt that I had to clear things up with her and stop the tension. After all, it was me who started it and anyway, I'd wanted to speak to her about it. I finally did after some time. I know it's an excuse if I said I'd been busy with school so I delayed it but no, really, I really am very, very tired from school. Oh god, the modules are intense and my brain was practically drained. 

Anyway, before I go out of point, I will not go into the details of what happened but yeah, I am really glad that I made up with her even though I know we don't get along well sometimes. Either way, we are good friends after all. Right now, she is going through a difficult time, just like me. Except that I am sort of getting better and almost out of it. I don't know if she got the message that I'm there for her cuz I sort of left her alone battling her struggles. I did not go back to her cuz I felt bad for her, though. Just saying. I guess this friendship was worth fighting for. :-)

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